it's 3 days before the elections and i still do not have a presidential candidate yet. my husband already has a firm decision and is in fact actively promoting his candidate on facebook. but i think i made it clear that voting for a president is NOT a conjugal decision. fortunately, my husband is wise enough to acknowledge that in this case, we are two separate individuals. and so, while he patiently tells me why he thinks his candidate should win, he does so with such guarded passion. and while i know he wants to contradict my arguments about politics, he instead, opts to listen.
respect. it's a sacred word in a relationship. i'm glad i married this guy.